Real Talk Christian Podcast

074: How to Raise Christian Kids with Ryan Coatney of Cross Formed Kids

In an ever-changing world, how do we raise our kids to love Jesus and pursue him? This is a question that has been asked to us here at RTC a handful of times, and we knew that we needed to bring in the big guns for this conversation!
In this week's episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller sit down with Ryan Coatney of Cross Formed Kids. Cross Formed Kids is a biblically-based catechism method of learning and has grown in popularity with Christian parents all over America. In this episode, we ask Ryan many questions, including these: Why are so many kids and teens walking away from Christianity? What are ways that we can talk with our kids about Christianity in a way that they love Jesus and not just do the Christian thing? How do we have conversations around salvation and baptism at such a young age? Do you think there should be a certain age for salvation and baptism? Is teaching kids to follow Jesus a form of child abuse?
If you are a parent or hope to one day be a parent, you'll enjoy this conversation. If you have any questions regarding Cross Formed Kids, you can find a link to their website in EVERY single show note that we've produced for RTC. We believe in this style of educating your children, and we believe that you'll love this conversation.
 
//Information on Cross Formed Kids and Ryan Coatney//
Cross Formed Kids: https://crossformedkids.com
Cross Formed Kids on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crossformedkids
Cross Formed Kids on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crossformedkids/
Ryan Coatney on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_coat/
 
//Other episodes you may enjoy//
73 - Being Pro-Life After Birth: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/073-being-pro-life-after-birth-ft-andrew-wood-of-knoxville-hope-resource-center-knoxvillehope/
58 - Can Christians Wrestle With Doubt?: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/058-can-christians-wrestle-with-doubt/
48 - Made in the Image of God: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/048-made-in-the-image-of-god/
BONUS - What Should Christians Do with Santa Clause?: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/bonus-what-should-christians-do-with-santa-clause/
13 - Youth Sports vs. The Church: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/013-youth-sports-vs-the-church/
2 - Is Disney Causing Our Kids to Walk Away from Christianity?: http://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/002-is-disney-causing-our-kids-to-walk-away-from-christianity/
 
//Helpful Links//
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
 
//Music used on RTC//
Opening Song: “Joy” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
Closing Song: “Adjust” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

073: Being Pro-Life After Birth ft. Andrew Wood of Knoxville Hope Resource Center (@knoxvillehope)

Christians are often accused of only caring about babies when they are in the womb but not caring about both mothers and babies after babies are born, especially during political seasons when being Pro-Life becomes a talking point in the political sphere. But here's a question: is this actually true? Marc and Fuller decided to sit down with Andrew Wood to talk about this claim.
 
Andrew Wood is the executive director of Knoxville Hope Resource Center (@knoxvillehope). Hope Resource Center comes alongside expecting parents who don't know where else to turn when they find out they are pregnant by providing care for mothers and babies both before the baby's birth and long after the birth. Hope walks with both men and women to help them establish a life as a parent, and they do all of this because they want to show God's love to those who need it.
 
If you've ever heard the statement that Christians only care about babies in the womb or wondered if there's something that Christians can do to help scared, pregnant mothers, you'll definitely want to listen in on this conversation.
 
Information on Andrew Wood and Hope Resource Center
Hope Resource Center: https://investinghope.com
Videos from Andrew Wood on abortion, hope, and being pro-life: https://erlc.com/multi_author/andrew-wood/
Andrew Wood on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrewhwood/
 
Other episodes you may enjoy
63 - What is Undeserved Grace?: https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/063-what-is-undeserved-grace/
48 - Made in the Image of God: https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/048-made-in-the-image-of-god/
39 - Single Foster/Adoptive Mom of Five Kids, ft. Beth Schneider of @schneiderladies: https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/039-single-foster-adoptive-mom-of-five-kids-featuring-beth-schneider-of-schneiderladies/
37 - Fertility Education & Medical Management (FEMM), ft. Sara Nass: https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/037-fertility-education-medical-management-with-sara-nass/
 
Helpful Links
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
 
Music used on RTC
Opening Song: “Joy” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
Closing Song: “Adjust” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

072: Three New Year Goals Every Christian Should Have

It's time to leave 2020 and move onto 2021!
With a new year comes new goals, dreams, and expectations. Most people, including Christians, set "new year resolutions" to help them have the best year ever. Sadly, most of the resolutions fail within the first couple weeks. Rather than make resolutions, we think you should make goals! Why? Goals are things that you can attain for, rather than resolutions that are decisions to do or not do.
In this episode, Marc and Fuller talk about three goals that every Christian should have as they walk into 2021.
 
//Links Mentioned in this episode//
Last year's New Year episode: https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/023-new-year-resolutions-are-they-effective/
 
//Helpful links//
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
 
//Music used on RTC//
Opening Song: “Joy” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?
si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA Closing Song: “Adjust” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

071: How to Keep Christ as Our Focus During Christmas

Every good Christian knows that Jesus is the "reason for the season," however, maybe Christians find it very hard to bring Jesus into their Christmas celebrations. Have you ever wondered what are some very easy, practical ways to keep Jesus as our focus during the Christmas season? Buckle up for this quick podcast episode as we take you on a Christmas journey.
Merry Christmas!
 
//Links Mentioned in this episode//
Christmas Advent Tree: https://www.lisaleonard.com/christmas-is-coming-advent-calendar-prd-ldc0020-pw/?gclid=Cj0KCQiA rj9BRCAARIsANB_4ABBN5SwKpOUDtH3lQnFw1wbfZz2n63ffPefsb23md_ G9z5ol_RYC4aAp5TEALw_wcB
The Purpose of Christmas Book by Rick Warren: https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Christmas-Rick-Warren/dp/1501196952
The Chosen, “The Shepherd” episode (watch on VidAngel): https://www.vidangel.com/show/the-chosen-a7284/season/1
 
//Helpful links//
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
 
//Music used on RTC//
Opening Song: “Joy” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
Closing Song: “Adjust” by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

070: Do Churches Need Pastors?

The role of the pastor has changed throughout the centuries – from spiritual guide to ruler of countries. Every church has a pastor (some have multiple), but the role of the pastor is rarely defined. Let alone defined, many don't ask the question, "is the role of the pastor even required if every Christians followed the Bible?"
 
In this episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Fuller talk about the roles that the pastorate has evolved into in the 21st century, if those roles are Biblical, and if pastors are even needed in the church.
 
Links Mentioned in this episode
Podcast Episode 40 with the Frerichs
https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/040-peruvian-missionary-kid-%E2%80%A9now-a-futbol-missionary-with-joseph-kimberly-frerichs/
Podcast Episode 19: What to do when the church hurts you
https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/019-when-the-church-hurts-you/
https://www.challies.com/articles/whats-the-purpose-of-pastors/
 
Helpful links:
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Quick Links: https://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
 
Music used on RTC:
Opening Song: “Joy” by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
 
Closing Song: “Adjust” by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

069: I Know God Loves Me, but Does God Like Me?

We have heard from some Christians that they know God loves them, but based on their actions and thoughts, they feel like God doesn’t like them. . . like He’s unhappy with them. Like a parent who says to their child, “I love you, but I just don’t like you at the moment.” Does God ever get to the point where he says, “I love you, but I just don’t like you at the moment."
 
In this week's episode of Real Talk Christian Podcast, Marc and Fuller discuss this line of thinking and try to get to the source of the fear, including topics such as what the Bible says about God's love grace, why we feel like we aren't close to God, and can we lose certain blessings if we don't follow God the ways that we should. No stone gets unturned in the pursuit to answer this question.
 
Helpful links:
Choose your listening platform: http://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Website: https://www.realtalkchristianpodcast.com
RTC Store: https://teespring.com/stores/real-talk-christian-podcast?page=1
 
Music used on RTC:
Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
 
Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

068: Christians & Alcohol: is it a sin?

The CDC says, “Excessive alcohol use is responsible for more than 95,000 deaths in the United States each year, or 261 deaths per day. These deaths shorten the lives of those who die by an average of almost 29 years, for a total of 2.8 million years of potential life lost. It is a leading cause of preventable death in the United States, and cost the nation $249 billion in 2010."
 
If this is true, why do so many Christians believe that it is not only acceptable but also enjoyable to drink alcohol?
 
In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller open up the Bible to answer the questions like "Is drinking alcohol is sin?" "Is it wise to drink alcohol?" and "How should we handle ourselves if we think it's a sin but others think it's okay?"
 
Links:
The Jesus Bible: https://www.thejesusbible.com
 
Helpful links:
Choose your listening platform: http://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Website: https://www.realtalkchristianpodcast.com
RTC Store: https://teespring.com/stores/real-talk-christian-podcast?page=1
 
Music used on RTC:
Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
 
Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

067: How to Be Thankful in 2020

2020 has been the definition of a dumpster fire, but is there anything in 2020 that we can be thankful for? In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller discuss how we can be thankful all times and how being thankful manifests itself in our everyday lives. What are we thankful for this year? That's easy! We are thankful for all of you! Happy Thanksgiving!
 
Links:
The Jesus Bible: https://www.thejesusbible.com
 
Helpful links:
Choose your listening platform: http://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcast
Got Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.org
Dwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.io
Cross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.com
RTC Website: https://www.realtalkchristianpodcast.com
RTC Store: https://teespring.com/stores/real-talk-christian-podcast?page=1
 
Music used on RTC:
Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
 
Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgren
https://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

066: Answering the Call of the Kingdom

Have you ever stopped and wondered, "What is my purpose in being a Christian?" Maybe you've thought about that question, and hey, maybe you haven't. At the end of the day, though, we have to have a purpose on this earth, besides just living and dying. Right?
In this episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller talk about evangelism and telling people about Jesus. We go into the heart behind telling people about Jesus, some easy ways to share your faith, and even discuss if evangelism is the Christian's sole purpose here on this earth.
 
Previous episodes mentioned:
22: Finding God's Will for you Life – https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/022-finding-gods-will-for-your-life/
34: The One Sin that Won't Be Forgiven – https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/034-the-one-sin-that-wont-be-forgiven/
60: How should we study the Bible – https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/060-how-should-we-study-the-bible/
63: What is Undeserved Grace – https://realtalkchristianpodcast.com/episodes/063-what-is-undeserved-grace/
 
Helpful links:Choose your listening platform: http://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcastGot Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.orgDwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.ioCross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.comRTC Website: https://www.realtalkchristianpodcast.comRTC Store: https://teespring.com/stores/real-talk-christian-podcast?page=1
 
Music used on RTC:Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgrenhttps://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgrenhttps://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg

065: Beatless Worship

When someone says the word “worship,” Christians often think of music, a band, a song set, and maybe even lights and haze. But is this the way it’s supposed to be, or is worship more than a beat? 
In today’s episode of RTC, Marc and Fuller take a deep dive into Scripture to see just what worship is. Best part? You don’t even need a beat to worship Jesus every day. So what is worship? This week’s episode answers just that question.
 
Helpful links:Choose your listening platform: http://linktr.ee/realtalkchristianpodcastGot Questions?: https://www.gotquestions.orgDwell Bible App: https://dwellapp.ioCross Formed Kids from Ryan Coatney: https://crossformedkids.comRTC Website: https://www.realtalkchristianpodcast.comRTC Store: https://teespring.com/stores/real-talk-christian-podcast?page=1
 
Music used on RTC:Opening Song: "Joy" by Paul Lindgrenhttps://open.spotify.com/track/3VcYVaixPlAS1KDVgYo1Dy?si=TqSXguuVQNudJrkcRDDjIA
Closing Song: "Adjust" by Paul Lindgrenhttps://open.spotify.com/track/16VMY0XxHDo0bLpp6dQpuc?si=a1khJqYTTtWyzeQEbtYGXg